From the mind of a man: Who should pay for the STD test?
Dear MOAM, The guy who I have been dating wants to sleep with me but we are not a couple. I want to sleep with him too. However he told me that he will not do certain acts with me…
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Curvy Queen Convos: Swimwear for the curvaceous woman
Hey lovely ladies it’s time to talk swimwear! The last few weeks have given us a taste of what the hot summer months have in store. The heat is on! Temperatures are steadily rising and this can only mean one…
Summer fashion tips: it’s not that complicated!
Well Queens summer is here, and you are either happy and flauting your summer body or mad at yourself for beginning your work out plan late or not beginning at all. Don’t worry not all is a fail we have…
She CAN Manage: Perfectly pleasing palette
One of the simplest, most cost-effective improvements a homeowner can make to their home is to paint. Whether you choose to paint the exterior of your house or give your rooms an update, that will translate into value for your…
Create a moment of happiness
You will never believe what I did! As I walked down the steps from my early morning yoga class last week, I looked out and noticed that it was raining. I tried walking home in my flip flops, but my…
A journey of self-love: Three years without sex and counting
Amy (not her real name) knows what she wants and is unapologetic –to experience unconditional love with her soul mate. And until that day comes she has made a commitment–not to have sexual relations with anyone. While she says her…
SheMail: Do I tell my best friend I slept with her ex-man?
Dear SheMail: I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months and he told me the reason why he never took me to his house is because its too small. He spends most nights with me. His jealous…
Love, Loss and Resurgence
How many times have you heard a version of the expression, “All that’s in the dark will come to the light”? Although it is a biblical statement, and may seem overused never a truer word has been said. For me…
Is your HUSTLE holding you back?
I was sitting in the hair salon a few weeks ago when the young lady next to me began talking about her side hustle. You could hear the excitement in her voice as she recounted what lead her to get…
Don’t forget to check on your strong friends!
This month’s column is very difficult to write. I started last week but somehow couldn’t make it past the first sentence. I wanted to discuss a subject that has been buzzing around more than ever due to the unfortunate and…